Want to get tied up?

When ropes hug you, you can let go of your everyday worries. Surrender into talented hands.

I’m offering rope and BDSM sessions in Helsinki, Finland, within good reach with public transport.

in ropes Säde Rinne / photo: Tiikka Drama / 2023

Me as a top

As a person tying, I’m specialiced in semenawa, a form of tormenting rope which creates physical or mental suffering. For many, it’s a pleasurable way to let go of your everyday self and go deep into yourself and your body.

I’m very emphatic and sensitive person, so I’m also very happy to tie people up in a gentle and caressing way. A rope session can be completely pain-free and focus on gentle touch and care.

All contact with me happens with confidentiality.

For me, it’s important to negotiate well what the session includes, and make sure everything we do is wanted and consensual.

All kinds of genders, ages (18 and over), bodies and backgrounds are warmly welcome! 🖤

Read more about me and my background here.

A rope session with me can be:

  • Gentle and connective touch with rope

  • Being tightly bound in the relaxing hug of ropes

  • Ropes that include pain, to challenge the body and the mind

  • Session with sensory restrictions (to sight or hearing)

  • BDSM elements (e.g. play with power dynamics, D/s, spanking, fetishes, role play…)

  • Being partly or fully suspended in the air (semi suspensions, full suspensions or transitions in the air = moving from one position to another)

  • Shared self-tying moment or guiding your self-tying (with my voice)

I will always discuss your hopes with you. Together we’ll plan a session which fits to our common interests and boundaries.

Please note: My sessions don’t include any kind of genital contact (touch under or over your underwear). Let’s keep our underpants on while tying together! I’m happy to refer you to a colleague, if you’re looking for this kind of service.

Why to pay for a rope session?

You might have noticed that there are more people who want to get tied up than there are riggers who are safe, trustworthy, and skilled. Safe and skilled riggers are often in high demand and, therefore, very busy.

I want to offer rope sessions so everyone who wants to, can get tied up. You compensate for my time and expertise, which are among the best in Finland.

With a competent rigger, you can let go of the fear of unsafe practices or someone who just wants to get into your pants.

Rope sessions are a service, where you can freely express your hopes and demands – I’m happy to listen!

f you’re new to ropes, a skilled rigger will know how to proceed at a comfortable pace. You don’t need to know if you even like being tied up – I’m very happy to help you find out!

in ropes: Travelsizebunny
photos: Petteri Pesonen

Rope marks on the skin. They’re not permanent and usually will dissolve in few hours. I’d love to hear, if you don’t like to have any marks on your skin, so I can plan the rope session better.

in ropes: Säde Rinne / photo: Tiikka Drama

Mitä sidontasessioon kuuluu?

  • Aloitamme toiveiden kartoittamisella, esimerkiksi puhelimessa jutellen.

  • Tapaamme sidontapäivänä ja laskeudumme tilaan. Istumme alas ja juomme yhdessä teetä tai lasin vettä.

  • Käymme läpi suunnitelmat sidonnalle ja neuvottelemme vielä hieman tarkemmin.

  • Muistutan vielä turvasanoista ja siitä, miten pitää huolta turvallisuudesta köysissä ollessa. (Voit lukea jo nyt kirjoittamani artikkelin hermoturvallisuudesta.)

  • Voimme vaihtaa vaatteet mukavampiin tai sessioon paremmin sopiviksi.

  • Saat nauttia köysistä ihollasi. Kaikenlaiset reaktiot ovat köysissäni sallittuja.

  • Sidonnan jälkeen on jälkihoidon aika. Se voi sisältää esimerkiksi loikoilua viltin alla, halauksia, teetä tai suklaata.

Varaukset & hinnoittelu

  • Hinta 150–250€ / n. 2h sessio (sisältää jälkihoidon).

  • Jos olet opiskelija, työtön tai muuten vähävarainen, ehdota sinulle sopivaa hintaa. Hinnoittelen työni mielelläni sosiaalisin perustein! 🖤

  • Varaukset yhteydenottolomakkeen kautta tai meilitse islaikashibari@gmail.com

  • Kerro viestissäsi vähän itsestäsi ja toiveistasi ja siitä, oletko kokeillut köysissä olemista jo aiemmin.